That’s what the majority of people say these days, but something I always try and remind myself is that no matter how tough, how tedious, how tiring your life feels, the one thing that is guaranteed, is the way YOU deal with the day to day obstacles that you need to jump!
Everyone has their own way of dealing with situations, no matter who you are, what line of work you are in, how many kids you have, where you live, what language you speak, everyone has a gold medal in this event….
You are the all time champion at being you – No one does YOU better than you do!
Its simple…. The skill is knowing who you are, naturally and learning how to keep focused on what YOU really want from YOU and be able to find the confidence to allow yourself to really be you! Once you have acknowledged this then your journey can begin.
We put a great deal of pressure on ourselves to be “something”, to achieve “something” or try and follow others in their path only to find that we are not able to be that person or do those things… But what we fail to realise in many cases is that we don’t need to be ” that person” or indeed do things ” the way they do” because we can do it OUR VERY OWN WAY…
Now I love the proverbs and sayings that are out there (mainly because in my head I’m repeating them in the voice of Yoda, which always makes me smile!!) but this one I actually believe in…
“Tension is who you think you should be. Relaxation is who you are.”
I’m not saying that this means just chill out and you’ll he fine, you will still need to put in the work to make things happen. The difference is that you do it YOUR OWN WAY! the way that only YOU can.
And as legendary psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi says, “It’s when we focus on running our own race and being our best, that we are at our most creative.”
So let loose, think as if there was no pressure, no push from anyone other than yourself… What do you really want to do ? How can you do it? Do it!… In your own special way!
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